Relationship Tools

Relationships are quite important.

My husband and I have built these tools to help our relationship. Others might find them useful too.

List:




Conversation Agreements

kindtalk.org (opens in a new tab)

Guide cards to keep conversations & debates interesting, loving, and fun.

Bets Calculator

bet.dsernst.com (opens in a new tab)

How confident are you of what you're claiming? Bet calculator - how many $ does it make sense to wager?

"Toxicity" concept

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The Rose — Orgasms For World Peace

rose.arianaivan.com (opens in a new tab)

First (female) orgasm in one minute using the Rose; or experience the mind-blowing experience of your partner's penetration in combination with the rose

RankedThings Partner Edition

rankthings.io/partner (opens in a new tab)

What are the most important qualities you value in a partner? Play the game "If you could have one but not the other..." & get a ranked list of what you care the most in a partner. Game loved by millions!

"Fun & nurturing"

a vow-like concept instead of "Forever".

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Find Shared

find-shared.vercel.app (opens in a new tab)

Write down a list of XYZ (business priorities, life desires, kinks) and find those you have in common.

Privately: you can express your enthusiasm, without worrying - if the other person is not enthusiastic about it, they won't find out that you are. So you can safely express your enthusiasm for things that you are nervous about.

The results are also sorted by the things both of you are most excited about.

Goenka Timer app

Meditate together or alone: Goenka Timer: vipassana meditation (opens in a new tab)

"-5 to +5" concept

Express your preferences as range.

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Book: Women are from Venus & Men are from Mars

Book reading with your partner.

BlowjobChain

blowjobchain.com (opens in a new tab)

When you share finance (or not), and you want to place bets, award each other points for lovely gestures, or negotiate for tasks "I'll give you five points if you go grab pizza".

10 points = 1 blowjob card.

This is your relationship's currency on your private blockchain.

Claim a card (blowjob - neutral term for both genders) when you want.

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